THINK BIG, THINK TALL

Big thinking, tall thinking and by the help of God is what makes people successful.  So, nurture your mind with great thoughts for you will never go any higher than you think. Think big

One of the most worlds known scientist Isaac Newton while sitting under a tree, a fruit falls on him, he begun to think why the fruit fell downwards and not upwards. He did not just think, but he thought tall, and is through his big thinking about the tree, the fruit and himself that he came to discover the force of gravity.  Think big.

The problem with us is that we have a tendency to think only little thoughts about everything: about ourselves, our family, our children, and our business. So we get little results. Don’t think weakness or failure because you will become one. Think strength. Think tall. Believe tall. Act tall. Dare tall. Stand on your own two feet and live tall like a “man”. Think tall.

-Prince safari-

International youth day

“What next” being the main theme of the day, 12^th August 2014 marked a great youth empowerment day in Kenya. The V.I.Ps and other distinguished guests were expected to tell the youths what next to look forward to and give them hope as they go through their struggle.

Mental health being a major concern to the youths, the mental health ambassador Sitawa Wafula urged that there was much that was needed to be done by the Gov’t: to the people living with epilepsy and mental health issues.  From our guests they had much to say to the youths: unemployment and generation of jobs to the youths, creation of more opportunities to the youths, and much other more about mental health.

A torch was lit to symbolize a new era of youths in our country. Thus, youths were supposed to wake up and do something, and if they have the will to do it and pursue it, they will reach their destination, get to greater heights, their goals, objectives and dreams, and even the impossible. As this is their time they needed to utilize by being focused and alert, to make a better future, a better society and a better nation. For instance the Youth Enterprise Funds provided by the Gov’t, the challenge is now to the youths to come up with healthy projects, business plans or even nature their talents for those who are gifted.

All in all everybody has to understand that the youths are the backbone of every society, if we have strong and successful youths, we will have the best society, the best nation and be the best country. Therefore the youths should be prioritized and given an upper hand by both the Gov’t and society in every matter.

-prince safari-

THE LAW OF SUCCESS

PERSIST UNTIL YOU SUCCEED

The prizes of life are at the end of each journey, not near the beginning; and it’s not given to you to know how many steps are necessary in order to reach your destination. Failure you may still encounter at the thousand step, yet success hides behind the next bend in the road. Always should you take another step; if that is of no avail take another and yet another. One step at a time is not too difficult. Persist until you succeed.

Consider each day’s effort as but one blow of your blade against a might Oak. The first blow may cause not a tremor in the wood, or the second, or the third. Each blow, of itself may be trifling and seem of no consequence. Yet from childish strike the oak will eventually tumble. So it will be with your effort of the day. Persist until you succeed.

Be like the rain drop which washes away the mountain; the ant who devours a tiger; the star which brighten the sky. Build your castle one brick at a time knowing that small attempts, repeated will complete any undertaking. Persist until you succeed.

Try and try again so long as there is breath in you, for one of the greatest principle of success; is to persist until you succeed.

Square your shoulders to the world, it’s easy to give in. lift your head a little higher, you were meant to win, grit your teeth, but smile, don’t frown we all must bear our bit; it’s not the load that weighs us down, but the way we carry it.

-Prince safari-

TIPS FOR A HEALTHY, LONG LASTING RELATIONSHIP

PATIENCE

1.       Be patient to your partner; avoid putting your lover on tension to do something which he or she is not ready to do. Let everything come automatically in the right time. No need to rush.
TIME
2. Always spare time for your lover; Cease telling your spouse all the time that you are busy. When will you have time for him or her? Recall in the past you had time to corn her, to call or text him but now why can’t you? Come on try to fix some time for your partner, meet and have fun and some good memorable moments.
UNDERSTANDING
3. Be an understanding partner; Try to believe what your lover tells you, if he tells you that he failed to get credit to call on you try to understand it. He’s also a human being like you. If she/he tells you that by the time you called he/she was asleep, try to understand it. She /he also gets tired and she needs to rest like any other person.
FORGIVENESS
4. Always forgive and forget; avoid bringing back the old things your lover did to you in the past every time you get a quarrel.
CARING
5. Be caring; with the care I don't mean you go borrow money from the bank and friends and buy for your partner costly things, to take him or her in expensive hotels... I mean doing the little things that suit in your wallet. Trust me if your lover is well raised and understanding h/she will appreciate and love you that way.
COMMUNICATION
6. Maintain the communication with your lover; Try keeping in touch with your partner, call or text him or her, don’t allow your lover to start missing you. Be closer in any possible way.
FAITHFULNESS
7. Be faithful and trustworthy to your partner; I know you may be distant from your partner, then you start doubting him or her that maybe he or she is cheating on you or busy with someone else because he/she no longer does this and that hence you also start flirting and sleeping around with different people which isn’t good at all. Fight those false thoughts so that they don’t take you off track. Trust in your partner if you really love him or her and be faithful.
RUMORS
8. Avoid listening to rumors; these rumors are spread by people who don’t have what to do, they keep gathering false info and then they spread it to you. the majority of them have intentions which aren’t good. Some are interested in your lover, they admire the way h/she cares and loves you. So they build up fake stories just to make you hate and dump your partner and in turn they replace you. Watch out for them.
IRRITATING
9. Avoid being nagging all the time; stop accusing your lover falsely all the time just because you want him or her to be guilty, you well know that your partner wasn’t involved in something but you’re constantly pinning him or her. why?, stop your games of complaining all the time over small things just because you want your lovers attention and to be the controller. Such acts may make your partner start losing the love they had for you hence paving a way for a break up.
DEPENDENCY
10. Don’t be a dependant to your partner; Try contributing in some things, seriously stop being a parasite to your partner, share the bills together and have a say in some things since you’re also part of the relationship. Don’t make your partner to be the controller and the decision maker of the relationship.
HONESTY
11. Be honest to your lover; Avoid lying and fooling your partner, lies won’t get you any prize, stick on the truth no matter it’s hurting sometimes.
RESPECT
12. Respect your lover; if he is the man or she’s woman of your life then why disrespecting him or her? Don’t back at your partner, pay attention to what h/she says, don’t undervalue him or her, be a listening mate and do what your lover wants.
PRIVACY
13. Give your man or woman some privacy; Avoid checking each and everything of his or hers, give your lover some space and freedom, try to have some trust in your partner no matter you don’t stay or move together, don’t touch your mate’s phone. Seriously you found your lover with friends; h/she has to keep in touch with them. They are not his girlfriends or her boyfriends. Your girl is that beautiful type, she has guys that try to corn her but she doesn’t love them and she can’t sleep with any. It’s you that she chose out of a million men that approach her. She loves you.
FORGETTING
14. Stop bringing back the past; I know your partner jazzed you about his or her past experiences in love which weren’t so good. But stop re-rating everything he/she does today to his or her past. Let it not be a daily song or a weapon to use to silent your partner all the time. Seriously your partner jazzed you about it because h/she loves you so much and needed you to know him or her very well.
SINCERITY
15. Always mean it when you tell your partner that you love him or her; Don’t just say that word just to make your mate feel good, let it be from the heart and accompany it with actions that will make your partner believe it that you truly adore him or her.
PROMISES
16. Avoid giving fake promises; Many folks promise things that they will not fulfill like I will build for you a house if you produce for me a kid, I will take you to a driving school and buy for you a car if you accept to come home, I will pay all your tuition if you start staying with me, I will buy for you a piece of land, I will marry you if you create for me a job, I will introduce you to my parents if you buy for me this and that…and many more other fake promises
PRAYERS
17. Always pray to God; God he’s the solver and provider of everything. Nothing can fail with him. So surrender your relationship to the almighty God whether you’re in good or bad terms with your partner. If you have doubts that your partner may be cheating on you, pray to God to watch over him or her. If they are other problems like poverty, viral diseases and other in-differences just hand them to God and he will deal with them.

-prince safari-